Relationship simply put is the state of connection between two things, in this case two people. Love is one of the most intense feelings man has to deal with. It is usually difficult for one to juggle around with so many feelings all at once. Hunger, happiness, anxiety, fear then you throw love into the mix and all hell breaks loose. To paraphrase a quote made popular by Sophie Monroe: The brain is remarkable organ, works 24/7 until the day you fall in love.
Finding a partner is easy, finding a partner you’re compatible with is the tough nut to crack. People tend to fall in love for the wrong reasons and in the end up realizing that the VIBE is absent. The ability to verbally get through to each other is impossible.
When you and your partner have the ability to communicate, you’re laying the ground work to a long lasting relationship. It flourishes effortlessly. When i say communication, i don’t mean just talking, i mean interaction. Exchange of ideas, finding lasting solutions to problems together. It is how people find our of they are on the same page.
Partners need to make sure they talk issues which they pass rather than trying to ignore them. No injury ever got better by ignoring it. Instead it gets worse, hurts even more and in the long run develops infection. Then next thing you know you’re amputating a body part. Now, apply the same scenario to relationships. I am strongly against the “silent treatment” solution after fights because no one except Charles Xavier from the X-men has the ability to read minds. It may be difficult for your significant other to know what is bothering you.
Lack of interaction leads to couples drifting apart, being alienated from one another and therefore a gap is created between them. A gap which is soon filled by a third party who is willing to listening thus creating another relationship. This is usually the cause of broken
Most relationships go through hard times. Proper communication isn’t the only basis for achieving a thriving relationship but it is certainly the first and the most important on the long list. Always be willing to talk and listen to your partner no matter how uncomfortable or hard the topic may. Do it!
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Nice one bro
I enjoy your writing . I once read that lack of judgement happens with the emotions of fear, anger, and romantic love.