Have you ever stopped to think about the things that constitute your happiness? If not then do that now, and continue reading later. Deep down happiness is something everyone craves for, but many find it impossible. The answer to this mystery is simple though. More tips on this will be coming later but for now these are three things you can start doing to begin your journey towards happiness.
Always, always think in possibilities
The moment you start to think about limitations is the moment you begin to think less of yourself and your capabilities. Too many people limit their potential because they don’t want to spend the time it requires to get to where they wan’t to be. They focus too much on the limitations of what they have which holds them back from the possibilities of what could be. Whether you’re talking about the possibilities of your career, the possibilities of your health or the possibilities of your relationships; you need to think about what you can do to achieve what it is you’re aiming for. Stop making excuses because so and so doesn’t like you, or your city doesn’t have the economic support for your business and do something. Do something meaningful and do something that defies what others thought was impossible.
It is good to have role models, but don’t compare yourself to anyone
The only competition you need to think about right now is the person you see when you look in the mirror. You’re competing against the person in the mirror who tells you to sit back and relax when you have hard decisions to make. You’re competing against the person in the mirror who doesn’t control their emotions and acts irrationally during high stress situations. Focus on you. Don’t worry about the guy you went to high school with and don’t worry about your colleague. Constantly checking your life against someone else is a horrible way of living. Instead of looking at the story that someone else is writing and taking a stab at replicating it, focus on your story and do something that will make your story worth reading.
Redefine at all times; Innovate at all times
Change the game don’t let the game change you. Make the money, don’t let the money make you. Make sure to stay true to yourself and stay humble. Too often do people become someone they’re not for a new job opportunity instead of embracing their true passions and what they love to do. Money is quite important in life, but don’t let it make you exchange your dreams and passions for frivolities.