The Train
The movie, THE TRAIN has so many relationship-related messages that can help single ladies and guys make wise marital decisions.
1. Before you spend all your time chasing ladies or guys, find your purpose and work on it, Fine, you need Someone who can play the role of a support system in your life, but, you must have something he or she can support, you must have a vision you want to share with him or her.
2. There are reasons for every heartbreak you’ve experienced, or you will experience, no matter how bitter or sweet such experience is.
If you are patient to look into it, you will see the lessons, both good and bad.
It can be very painful to wish someone becomes your wife or husband, but for one reason or the other, such wish don’t see the light of the day.
3. Don’t just choose someone as your girlfriend or boyfriend, instead choose someone who will understand and support your vision and be ready to support his or hers too if you sincerely want him or her as your husband/wife.
4. It is imperative to know how to identify God’s voice and plan for your life, not just religion or spirituality but your relationship with God if you believe in him, it has a way of influencing your choice and decisions.
5. Every guy/lady is a work in progress, you must prepare your mind to accept him or her and work together to make each other better, getting married to a rich man’s son or daughter is nice but doesn’t guarantee your success.
6. Be open to constructive criticism and advise, you can’t see all your flaws, that’s one of the reasons you have someone in your life.
He or she should be able to point your attention to things you need to see and you must not see him or her as a bad person for doing so.
7. Be sure if he or she is ready to stand by you when situations and circumstances seem to be working against you, your vision and plans, he or she might not give you money or her body, but his her support will go a long way to shape many things for you.
8. Are you sure that your peace of mind is guaranteed with him or her or all you want is his money, six-packs, boobs, ass, pink lips and fat bank account, those things are good to behold but can’t be compared to the peace of mind?
9. If you eventually scale the hurdles together and your dreams finally come true, don’t change him or she instead shows the world how he or she has contributed to the realization of your dream.
10. If you watched the movie, “The Train“, you will realise that dating multiple girls or guys doesn’t mean you are a big girl or guy, that is not a sign that you are smart, it shows that something is missing about your the way you view life.
Love is beautiful ❤️
Composed/compiled by
Oluwafemi Adeniyi