See the ways our favorite Ultimate Love housemates choose to settle the differences.
The relationships we have seen formed in the Love Pad can be tasking and draining because the dynamics are that of competition. Conflicts happen in every relationship, but what the most important thing is, is how the couple resolves them. The way you deal with your disagreement with your Partner can be either healthy or unhealthy.
Bolar Ultimate Love Housemates
Arnold is a guy who believes in getting to the cause of the disagreement. Most times, when you argue with your PartnerPartner, it’s because one of the couple’s needs are not met. If it seems like your PartnerPartner is overreacting about any small stuff, take a moment to evaluate whether there is a more significant issue at hand.
For example, if your significant other is upset that your attention is going elsewhere, you might want to designate more time for him or her. Consider things from your Partner’s point of view and put yourself in their shoes.
ObiEbi
We should watch out over control freaks in the relationships. Ebiteinye Ultimate Love Housemates has consistently told Obichukwu that he makes her feel inadequate with his comments about her body. Obichukwu then justifies his comment by downplaying what she was saying and saying everything he does is for their good.
It would be better for Obichukwu to listen and take Ebiteinye’s feelings into consideration, thou I doubt if he’s looking to share a future with her.
Micherry
This is another Love Pad couple that has been fighting with issues of control. Cherry has voiced out that she feels left-out by Michael, this happened after she was left out of the planning of the Enugu state traditional wedding while she was in the shower. It might seem a trivial matter, but it can very quickly blow into a real issue.
PreshDavid
This couple is the perfect description of agreeing to disagree and choose your battles. Ever since the colossal scandal that involved Rosie, PreshDavid now considers whether what they are fighting about is really worth arguing over. They have found that it is better to concentrate and work on their relationship than fighting over what they have no control of. How they handled their initial conflict has actually brought PreshDavid closer together.
Iykeresa
No couple talks about their intentions for each other the way Iyke and Theresa. When you communicate effectively with your PartnerPartner, you tend to understand better and make your relationship stronger. The couple has been flourishing since they joined the Love Pad. Conflict in relationships is inevitable, and it will be interesting to see how Iykeresa will navigate conflict should it arise.