4 life lessons we need to get down if we actually want to live a calm and peaceful life.
1. Avoid taking big decisions when angry
There is certainly no way from separating our feelings and emotions from our cognitive reasoning. Experts believe that all the repugnant emotions human beings posses have the ability to hinder logical reasoning. Emotions such as anger basically stops the brain from thinking properly. Making a person only focused on the person who made you angry, how to retaliate against them so they can also feel what you’re feeling.
The brain here is being worked up to the extent in which it cannot perform its function properly which when simply put is telling what is right from what is wrong.
2. Your parents were right all along;
Parents are most times right about many things, but childishness and naivety wouldn’t let us open our eyes to the truth. People believe that parents, especially mothers have psychic abilities. When I say psychic, I don’t mean she can move a car with her mind.
I mean she can tell when you’re lying. It’s actually not rocket science or actually psychic powers. The fact that they are wiser and more experienced than you are. They are able to detect all the tell tale signs of a fraud.
3. The storm always passes;
No condition is ever permanent. Some events occur which breaks the spirits of the strongest people. Despite the fact that they might have. All you need is to put on a strong attitude towards life.
4. Failing is good and sometimes necessary;
As long as it doesn’t become habitual. Failing is a catalyst which enables one to aim higher and to end up exceptional result rather than to settle for mediocrity. Failure only serves as a guide and tells you were you went wrong the last time and helps you to correct yourself.
Each time you fail, you’re only equipping yourself with a manual to an easier and guaranteed way to be successful. It is important to learn how to use failure to your advantage because the fear of failing alone can stop you for pursing or achieving your goal.
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Very true!
Good writing Aminu. I look forward to more of your words