Nine (9) worst places to propose to your partner in Nigeria
Knowing the nine (9) worst places to propose to your partner in Nigeria is one of the knowledgeable things to do. Being conscious of them will however help you to avoid embarrassments and rejection in proposing. It is believed that proposing and being accepted is one of the happiest moments on earth. To that effect, most things need to be adequately considered before taking that bold step.
It will be ideal to note that most times, the places we choose to propose tend to influences the outcome of the proposal. Hence, I am of the school of thought that nothing can be compared to the feeling of finding and being ready to propose to the right partner. And “anything worth doing is worth doing it well”.
Internet in most cases can be said to have played a major role in showcasing places to propose that turned out to be stunning. Without highlighting that reverse will be the case when replicated in some other countries. Nonetheless, it is unarguable true that making a proposal special, ushers a new refreshed atmosphere to the next step “Marriage”. Interestingly, knowing the worst places to propose to your partner and avoiding them will help you get the expected proposal result (A Big Yes).
Before noting the nine (9) worst places to propose in Nigeria, it’s ideal to note various important determining factors of a good proposal. Note that getting a “Big Yes” in a proposal is not the only important thing to look out for in proposing to a lady. Africa especially Nigeria ladies have a thing about proposal.
Unlike what might be seen elsewhere, the pay more than usual concentration to details. Hence, in order to get the expected result, one must endeavor to avoid the worst places to propose. In the course of this piece, we will be guided on the worst places to propose to a partner in Nigeria.
There has been a lot of thoughts and opinions globally on worst places to propose to a partner. The following places listed are among the funniest and interesting places not to propose. They among others include:
One of the worst places to propose to your partner is at someone else’s wedding. It’s just like seizing someone else’s moment to shine and it’s just not cool. The act can be considered to be awkward by the other guests at the wedding who might not know what’s going on. In Nigeria especially, it’s morally right to seek the approval of the groom and bride before taking such a step.
Just like proposing in someone else’s wedding, it’s also so gross to propose in another person’s birthday party. If you must, then, kindly get inform the celebrant on time to get approval. But even after getting approval, it’s still advisable to consider other ways to do that without making the it look embarrassing and awkward.
Proposing in someone else’s engagement party is among the worst places to propose in Nigeria. Just recently, there was a “proposal gone wrong” that trended on social media. Stealing someone’s thunder for me is unacceptable and removes the fun that comes from proposing. Why on earth can someone think of proposing in another’s engagement party out of nowhere? The act is wrong and shouldn’t be, so as to avoid embarrassment.
It is so shocking to think about such, and not in a good way. But it will surprise you that lots of people have done it, while some are still considering it. Some propose to their partners at a burial hoping it will to some extent serve as a level of comfort. The intention might be good but the timing is bad. Hence, one needs to think in through so as to avoid having an awkward moment or embarrassment.
Another worst place to propose to your partner in Nigeria is during church services. Nigeria is a high spiritual country and it’s bad to propose in the church especially during chhurch server/Mass. As, not only will it be a distraction to the worshipers in the wrong way. But you might end up having serious issues with the pastor. If you must propose in the church, then it’s good to inform the pastor ahead of time. And probably get an insight on how to go about it without stepping on toes.
Among the worst places to propose is on a high way. It baffles me most times the thoughts that runs through people’s mind. Especially when they are searching for the best place to propose to their partner. A friend of mine was telling me about his plans to propose to his lady on the high way probably occupying one lane. My response was in question form, as I asked him, if it’s a proposal or a suicide attempt?
Using one lane on a highway in Nigeria to propose is a “No-No” for me. It’s clearly a risk of one’s precious life. As there is a high possibility that an oncoming vehicle can easily clear both you and your partner off the road. To be safe, please don’t propose on a highway especially in Nigeria.
One of the worst places to propose to your partner is on the beach, especially in sandy beach soil is not ideal. Imagine when the supposed (diamond) engagement ring falls in the beach soil and you have to start digging around to find it, It’s really not cool. For Christ sake, it’s an engagement ring and not a beach ball. And let also consider the case of it falling close to the seawater and being carried away by it. Either way, it’s really not cool.
Proposing in a public place is more or less a two-way thing. It’s however advisable that you study to understand your partner in order to know her likes and dislikes. Some partners like publicity and wouldn’t mind if been proposed to in public places. While others would probably prefer to be proposed to in a quiet and non-public place. So take time and understand your partner before proposing to her in the public places and embarrassing yourself or your partner.
Proposing in a family party might seem like a good and wonderful idea, but it’s surely not. Especially for people that hate “NO” for an answer, or probably dislikes embarrassments. Proposing in a family party for everyone to see indeed seems romantic, but undoubtedly just sleazy.
However, there are obviously two possible outcomes to that effect. Either she says yes and all the family members present gives you hug, congratulates you, and possibly celebrates with you too. Or she says no, and all the family members there will witness it, and that can be very embarrassing.
Knowing the worst places to propose to your partner in Nigeria or any other place and avoiding them is a step in a positive direction. As it will save you the stresses of losing the ring, experiencing awkward moments, embarrassments among others. Hence, a well-planned proposal will not only ensure the avoidance of the over listed stresses. But will also serve as a guide to getting the expected answer (A Big YES).
Please share the worst places to propose in your location, let be informed.