Life seems too hard for some people but it’s not as it is being viewed. The challenges of life, with its ups and downs, take its toll on many. There is a particular saying which goes ‘’This life is not difficult, it is the inhabitants that makes it what it is.’’ Truly, we have to see negativity as a vaulting pole with which we will jump over obstacles to live life to the fullest. Bad energy is never needed to pass through life unscathed. Many have lived life well; they never bother about what tomorrow will look like when the bats today haven’t migrated to their habitat. Their tenets have been based on positivity; saying the right words and living positively when it’s good or bad. They lived by the creed ‘As a man thinks, so is he.’ They moved on when they are hurt; they make sure the seed of bitterness doesn’t grow on their land. They are ever happy even if their bank accounts are unhappy (red). They knew this life will treat them the way they admit themselves unto its care. People like this understand the cliché ‘You Only Live Once’. Once is quite enough when it is lived well.
Here are five words you must always say to live a positive and fulfilled life:
- I LOVE YOU: Don’t hesitate to tell your loved ones you love them, it goes a long way in living a happy life for you and them. Your partner needs to hear this often as it heals them of worries. It makes them feel secure and good about living. Your parents and kids also need to hear this word too. This helps them to be relaxed and feel welcomed. This will make them extend this love to others which will make this world a better place. ‘I love you’ is one word often said from the depth of the heart, it’s not just lip service. When said truly, it looses shackles and makes this world worth living no matter the situation.
- I MISS YOU: This word surely makes people feel a sense of importance. It makes people feel secured despite their insecurities. They feel they are not alone even if you have told them they will never walk alone. I miss you means despite not being right there with them at that particular moment, they are not alone. This three-words-phrase can go a long way in making your loved ones have a brighter day when said. No wonder some phones come with automated messages such as ‘I miss you’.
- THANK YOU: If you must learn a new language, ‘Thank you’ must be one of the words to learn. It has saved many lives and also enriches more. To live a fulfilled life, ‘thank you’ should be just an anthem. Tell people thank you when you are offered a glass of water. Tell your workers thank you, it helps to boost productivity. Say thank you every morning to the creator when you have an erection. Show appreciations for aging because many don’t get the opportunity. People are blessed when they say thank you, they also do more when they are appreciated. Learn to say thank you, it will surely increase your life span as you live life happily.
- PLEASE: Many lives have been cut short because they have refused to say ‘please’. Courtesy is an important etiquette for living a rewarding life. Ego has made many to lose several opportunities all because of their inability to say this six-letter-word. Being rude is a seed of bitterness that can be cured with a dose of ‘please’. It doesn’t take anything from you to say this word politely.
- SORRY: Just like the word stated above, it feels so difficult to say sorry. After a misunderstanding or quarrel, you have to say sorry and move on. The planet revolves around each other despite their varying properties, yet they move on. Say sorry to your boss if that will help you get that value you needed. Say sorry to free your mind of negativity so that you can get the best out of this life with positive thinking.
Make these five words stated above your lingua franca, you
will definitely be far from depression. Life is so sweet when lived well; make
sure you live it well.