When we talk about attractiveness, we think of appearance, which is something we can’t control much. Or we would think of character for a second. But researchers have found another hidden factor that is key to determine one’s attractiveness. That is how expressive you are.
So…how to be more expressive?
Try to use some common language with the person you’re talking to. For example, if he always uses the word “oh my…”, try to use it sometimes too (not too often though) to express your surprising feelings. The person would have a stronger understanding of how you feel as you speak a common language.
Whenever you don’t know how to show your expression, just smile. It can show your friendliness and people would know you’re approachable even if you’re not very expressive.
Don’t overlook the power of your hands. Remember when people argue they often do it with their hands? Remember how charismatic leaders persuade with their hands? Your hands tell a lot. Anger, resentment, nervousness, excitement, etc. always free up your hands and let them dance in the air. People will get what you mean much better.