Big Brother Naija reality star Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David, also known as Doyin, has advised women not to expect or feel entitled to their partners’ finances until they are officially married.
She believes that any support or financial assistance a man provides to his partner before marriage should be seen as a generous gesture
She made it clear that a man is not required to take on financial responsibility for his partner until they are married.
Doyin mentioned this while responding to a female fan who asked for advice after her boyfriend ended their relationship for calling him “stingy”
she posted the screenshot of the message via her Instagram story, she wrote: “I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend.
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you….whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
Doyin tried to make it clear that money is difficult to make, nobody wants to be spending money erratically.
“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”